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Five Life Lessons My Pregnancy Taught Me

Five Life Lessons My Pregnancy Taught Me

During the course of my pregnancy, I definitely learned a lot. But it went beyond a greater understanding of the incredible capabilities of the human body and the amazing intricacies of the power and might of Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala). My pregnancy taught me life lessons I can take beyond this brief span of nine months and ones I hope to continue to apply in the future:

Why We Need Forgiveness

Why We Need Forgiveness

The simple fact that we, as human beings, are fallible dictates that you and I are going to make mistakes. These mistakes can and often times hurt people around us, causing a rift in relationships that lead up, sometimes, to unwanted consequences. And so, we have all been there when someone does something that appears to be inconsiderate causing us to be hurt and leaving us wondering how to pick up the pieces and move on.

Assuming the Best of Others

Assuming the Best of Others

Accusations like these are often thrown around during family and marital arguments. People often lash out at their loved ones when they feel angry, sad or offended. When our defenses come up, we often think the worst of the person sitting across from us and view anything they say or do through a negative lens. When parents don’t grant permission to their child to attend an event due to worries about possible unsafe or inappropriate activities, a teen may see this as an attempt to stifle his independence or as an indication that her parents don’t trust her. When a husband leaves his dirty socks on the floor, his wife may view this as an attempt to purposely give her more work or as a sign of disrespect.

Why Does Allah Test Us? Reframe the Way You View Challenges

Why Does Allah Test Us? Reframe the Way You View Challenges

We all face challenges on a daily basis- some of us may be currently facing more difficult ones than others. You may be the mother of several young children, feeling lost in the seemingly never-ending daily struggles of caring for your family. You may be unhappy in your marriage, feeling as though you and your spouse are on different wavelengths and unable to fix it. You may be struggling with feeling attracted to the same gender and unsure of what your future will look like without the possibility of having a partner to spend your life with. Why are you going through this? What is the point of the challenges we face? Why can’t we all just be happy all the time?